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One of the favorite jokes of the upperclassman...

 



One of the favorite jokes of the upperclassman was to have one of the plebes French kiss the tea pot at the dinner table. All this ridicule made everyone want to learn about sex and get back at these swell-headed upperclassmen! A temporary overt homosexual orientation is less common among adolescent girls.I had a homosexual experience with my best girlfriend, whom I had known for many years. The practice took place between the ages of eleven and thirteen years of age, and included the fondling of each other's breasts. We wore both terribly concerned with our newly developing bodies, and in this way became intimate with each other in a limited way.


This practice became a ritual, always beginning with a backrub. We both become sexually aroused when fondling each other's breasts; however, this never led to orgasm. We liked this feeling, but were never interested in mutual masturbation. We talked over our guilt feelings of the practice, but decided that it was something small and certainly wasn't deviant.


I was about nine years old and my girlfriend was thirteen years old. I was giving her a lower examination of the genitalia region. I first rubbed her stomach and her legs to relax her, and then I would rub her pubic area, which had hair that I did not have. From my girlfriend's contacts with me, I know that I was sexually aroused and I enjoyed contact and stimulation in the region known as the mons veneris, so I would rub and finger her there, increasing the intensity of my fondling. Then with her legs spread wide in a straddle position, I would push back the labia and look, touch, pick, pull, and rub the entire area.


I remember seeing vaginal secretion and did not know what it was, how it got there, or why, and never questioned her on it. Little talking ever occurred during these games. Once this examination was over, the process was reversed by fondling and rubbing the pubic region and then the stomach. Orgasm seldom occurred, but there was much relaxation and then excitement experienced. Yet I do remember once when my girlfriend had me lying down on my stomach and with her hand in between my legs she had stimulated my mons veneris and clitoral system with her fingers, and I experienced a good sensation that I had not felt before, and then tried this masturbation technique on my own that I had learned from her.


Masturbating alone can also have homosexual implications when the accompanying fantasy is of a homosexual nature. I think I was twelve when I masturbated for the first time-quite by accident. Eventually, this private behavior became a somewhat regular highly enjoyable experience. Several "techniques" were employed, and my associated fantasy was seldom heterosexual. This continued through junior high school, diminishing sharply into senior high.


Masturbating with homosexual fantasy and group masturbation occurs among girls, but less commonly than among boys. I had discovered the pleasurable feelings associated with what I know now is called masturbation when I was twelve. Two other girls and I slept in the backyard in a pup tent one hot summer night. We giggled about having to go to the bathroom outside, and because of this entry into the topic of sex, we were easily sidetracked into other phases of sex and the questions we had. Under the knowing guidance of one of the other two girls, we found ourselves stroking each other's genitals and enjoying the feelings produced. I wanted to see if I could reproduce those sensations by myself, so I proceeded to try in my own bed, and I could!! I would have visions about seeing the woman across the street and have different sex dreams. The thoughts were always dirty- masturbation occurred.




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