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PORN, THE MALE PSYCHE, AND OTHER KINKY STUFF
 
 
 
 
 




Of Sex and Porn

 



General Masturbation


One obvious line of inquiryconcerning 'porn', leads us into the realm of masturbation - the significance ofpornographyhere is init's capacity to provoke arousal and orgasm. In this case, the arguments of the opponents of pornographic visual or written material are focusedon the masturbationpracticed by the consumers, as well as the addiction to this practice. The first argument has lost much of it's legitimacyin the last decades.


Not many people existing outside religioussects which emphasize sexual ascetism, believe seriously in this dayand age, that masturbation is 'abnormal' behavior, which mustbe mercilessly rooted out on sight, or, as the pioneering psychoanalysts insisted, that 'normal' humans are the ones whichhave 'overcome' this habit before entering adulthood. Apparently this habit has been overcome byalmost no one. Thankfullythe days in which western medical practitioners and scientistsdevised iron contraptions to guard the little boy's penis from violation, and amputated the clitorisof the little girl that can not stop indulging in the evil practice, are in the past.


Not ina veryfar past 19the last documented clotoridotomyin the US tookplace in 1958, performed on a5year old girl to stop her masturbating. Although the question whether masturbation is harmful or not, whether the harm is physiological, due to 'spilling the seed', or in the spheres of 'damaging the mind', or 'destroying morals'. or whether it isharmful only in specific circumstances, is far from answered it is no longer at the forefront ofour "Clitoridotomy" civilization's agenda -and it is thankfullyno longer an issue of such urgency as to compel parents to terrorize and mutilate their children for their own good. Freud and Reich, as well as Horneyand Klein, would call regular adult masturbationa deviation, butbyand large, this position has sunk now into the academic background. The issue of male masturbation in itself, apart from it's sociopolitical significance when achieved through watching or imagining certain situations in which female humans are objects for achieving arousal and ejaculation does not concern a feminist orprofeminist agenda -pornography does. What is pornography? Or to be more precise what is contemporary commercial hardporn?


Material for Masturbation


Often pornographyis perceived as 'representation of the sexual act'. When asked about "pornography" most contemporaryhumans take the issues to be a choice of making or not making available audio/visual recordingsof humans performing sexual acts. Do we show what we do at home ordo we not show what we do at home? The choice thus put is logically seen as a choice between sexual liberalism and sexual repression. Somefeminist observers attempt to phrase the questions differently, first of all, by not being blind to the fact, that pornography does not represent the sexual act the wayit happens 'at home 20'. Contemporary mainstream hard porn is not adocumentary onthe sexual activities of humans - rather it is a theater, a 'play' - in which certain things are beingdone, but these thingsdiffer hugelyfrom the spontaneous (as in 'not in front of the camera and projectors at a specific time and in prescribed manner') sexual acts.


The processes within the actors, theirattitudesandactions, are not subordinated entirely to the sexual act taking place, unlike 'real sex', the actorsare not following their own impulses, but rather are carrying out instructions of an outside authority, in order to earn money. For simplicity's sake let's call this authority 'the director': porn is a wayof representing the sexual and, inescapably, power relations between humans, not asit happens 'inthe wild',but according to what the director has in mind. In a free market this also means 'what sells'.


And what sells is not what is being practiced by the average spouses, but that which excites the customers. Mostof the customers to thisdayare males. From apro - feminist position pornographyis a patriarchal tool for the enforcing of aspectsof the social reality- the aspects concerning the sexual and power relations between male and female 20 Alison Assiter, 'Pornography, Feminism and the Individual', PlutoPress 1991 humans. And porn certainly does create in its viewers expectations of how a sexual act is to be carried out.




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