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Strongly contrasting with these people are others...

 



Strongly contrasting with these people are others, equally numerous, among whom chastity is valued very highly. Many primitive tribes cherish jealously the virtue of their women. The Mandan maidens are described as beautiful and unapproachable; the wayward Chippewa lass can never hope to marry a warrior; the Kaffir girl is chaste and modest; the Sumatran single woman guards her honor like a Vestal.


These are statements of travelers and explorers, but even making due allowance for exaggeration, the truth stands out clearly, that among existing peoples, primitive and cultured, all degrees of sentiment in regard to female purity may be found manifested, from the one extreme of declaring it a disgrace, to the opposite extreme of giving it precedence over all other virtues, and making it an indispensable condition of moral excellence.


Neither does the evidence warrant the contention sometimes heard that regard for chastity rises pari passu with civilization. "Some peoples who are in other respects among the lowest, are in this respect among the highest", says Spencer in his analysis of the subject, and this may also be gathered from the examples just cited.
Our main purpose in giving these illustrations has been to dispose effectually of the stubborn fallacy which declares our modern conventional conceptions of sex morality to be innate. Sentiments showing such a bewildering lack of uniformity in the different varieties of the human species, cannot be called innate without doing violence to the term. Leaving aside these and similar attempts to bolster up our unfair system with false assertions, let us now submit the system itself to a critical examination.


Our so called double standard ordains that woman should abstain from all sexual intercourse outside of wedlock, and practice intercourse exclusively with one man in wedlock. Now, if all women should actually conform to this demand, realizing it absolutely, it follows that no man would be able to indulge in sexual connections outside of wedlock, for sheer lack of a female partner. This conclusion is no mere sophism. It cannot possibly be evaded.


To say that single men are free to indulge in sexual intercourse, while women, both single and married, must guard their purity, is to commit one's self to a reductio ad absurdum! Given a community of unapproachably chaste women, according to the ideal set up by our "moral law", and where is the single man to find a companion for his extra marital intrigues? Manifestly, universal female chastity would entail universal male chastity.


Thus our double standard, which has resulted in such contradictory and mutually destructive demands upon the female sex, turns out on closer scrutiny to be a miserable paradox.


There is only one way leading out of this logical labyrinth namely, to set aside a class of women and exempt them from the requirement of purity. They will supply a channel for drawing off the uncontrollable excess of sexual passion in men, and thus allow the balance of woman-kind to preserve their "honor". Such a compromise does exist in reality, and our prostitute is the representative of this scapegoat class. "Herself the supreme type of vice", says Lecky in a familiar eloquent passage, "she is ultimately the efficient guardian of virtue. But for her the unchallenged purity of countless happy homes would be polluted. On that one ignoble and degraded form are concentrated the passions that might have filled the world with shame".


Only at such an expense, with the aid of such an expedient, can the monstrous, self contradictory double standard be maintained at all. Without this subterfuge it must inevitably collapse. All women cannot remain chaste unless all men remain chaste. This proposition is an unassailable logical stronghold. A lapse from purity on the part of any man implies a like lapse on the part of some woman. The sexes are thus seen to stand and fall together. Prostitution is the ransom we are paying for our iniquitous sex morality. It is the modern Minotaur, grown to gigantic dimensions like all things modern, devouring his annual tribute of thousands of our maidens.




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